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When you quote a fictional character around a friend or family member and they don’t notice



when you quote a fictional character around a stranger or new friend and they notice



this is how i feel literally EVERY DAY

I am more likely to say “I have neglected your education; come, we must watch/read/listen to this immediately.”


Man, the nurse who did the needle-sticking when I gave blood yesterday was REALLY good. I could hardly tell when he slid the thing in except that he said “deep breath”, and he barely even left a mark. Sometimes there’s big spreading purple bruises from blood that got out, sometimes there’s red dots at the sticking point, but today there’s barely even a visible hole.

I made him laugh, too, so all in all it was a good phlebotomy session.

Pass on that good stick luck!  I go to the vampires in half an hour.  


Where greatness sits.

What a great font someone chose for the names on the backs of the chairs!


Where greatness sits.

What a great font someone chose for the names on the backs of the chairs!



"Your too fat."

"I didn’t know [insert character] was black!"

"Why don’t you do more black cosplays?"

"Cosplay to your size!"

"I don’t think that looks right on you, why don’t you cosplay [insert character] instead?"

"Why is [insert character] black? They’re not black in the show."

"You shouldn’t cross-play, it looks weird on you."

"Your boobs are too big for [insert character]."

To everyone who as ever posted a comment or question like this, my answer:

I am a black plus size female cosplayer, if you don’t like it… well honestly I don’t care. The more you comment like an idiot, the more it feeds my will power to prove I’m an amazing cosplayer, not matter what you say. I may have days, or even weeks when I feel down about myself, but that will never stop me from doing what I love. I may have large boobs, chubby stomach, double chin, hair on my face, dark spots around my face and body, and a flat butt, but I rock any cosplay I put on. So grow up, and get out of my face. <3

I don’t like what most of these characters are, but you make ‘em look awesome!!!

And you’re a role model!  I’ve been afraid to even consider cosplaying because I am fat but you look great, so maybe I could look great too!

How to Deal with Procrastination


1. Be honest with yourself and admit that you’re putting off stuff that really needs to be done.

2. Try and figure out why you’re procrastinating. Is it because you don’t like it, it creates anxiety, you don’t understand it, it feels overwhelming, you’re disorganised …?

3. Decide to break the habit of procrastination by deliberately rewarding yourself for doing something you’d rather not do.

4. Make a pact with a friend –where you deliberately and regularly encourage each other, and hold each other accountable.

5.  Sit down and think – in detail – about all the likely consequences of not doing what needs to be done. Be brutally honest, and try and picture what you’re life is going to look like 6 months, a year and five years from now ( if you continue to procrastinate).

6. Decide to break large tasks down into smaller, more achievable tasks, and then tackle these smaller tasks one at a time.

7. Recognise your progress, and affirm and praise yourself for making these changes – and doing things differently, even though it’s hard.